Better Be Yourself

The tree was surrounded by seas, and in each of these swam a species of bird with its young. The more awareness you have, the less you will displace any negative feelings onto your child. I wanted to say, Please finish cutting those so I can listen to the story …

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Like Feverish Waves Of Heat

We conceded that Nicola was setting herself impossibly high standards, based on her previous roles (a wife and an employee), for fear that other people would perceive her as 'slacking' if she was seen to be dividing her attention even further. For Jung, the unconscious psyche provided the clues to …

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The Ultimate Gift To Yourself

When false fear messages are in effect, changing false beliefs isn't enough without exposure, either. I agreed that they were important psychological attributes for young athletes; It's little surprise we get ideas when showering, as for most people it's the only time they're free from random distractions. They are not …

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The Cry For Help Gets A Helping Hand

Generally, little time is given to understanding exactly how and where our unhelpful thinking originated from. It almost goes without saying that emotional intelligence is important in relationships, especially considering the fact that EI is a component of normal human communication and social interaction. There are an outsized number of …

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Coping With Disagreement

If it is perception of pressure, notice the levels of pressure in different people's hugs or handshakes, or the way your bag strap pushes into your shoulder. Another beginning of great importance is the beginning of any particular and responsible undertaking. Our ego sometimes has a difficult time accepting the …

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Unconscious Limitations On Intimacy

But if you are in need of some good brainstorming, these are your days! Edison said he had not failed to create the light bulb but rather had discovered over 10 000 ways not to, and Walt Disney famously remarked, 'It's kind of fun to do the impossible. Imagine the …

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Cognitive Therapy

As a man, you don't have the problem I describe above because your natural state is the Masculine, and thus you exist mostly in your natural state all day long at work. Cleansing your aura, home, and workspaces from negative energies helps uplift and restore you and provides greater depth …

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I Want To Be Rich I Don't Want To Be Envied

Here's another example based on Kahneman and Tversky (1982) that illustrates the pervasive influence of counterfactual thinking on emotional reactions. You just need to know the right time, the correct way to present the information so that you do not scare them or push them away. Often our judgment about …

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Intimations Of Mortality

We also leave room in our bags, or even bring bigger bags, so we can buy things on vacation and bring them home--much of which ends up being put into storage, or given to friends and family who don't really want it. Viewing the situation in this way takes much …

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An Element That Makes Life Worth Living

It has also improved my energy level, my mental health, and my overall body image. If a friend dropped by and asked you why your mom was doing that, you would readily respond, She always does that or She loves coffee in the morning--the same knowledge that led you to …

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The Spring Of 1983

It feels too much like faking it to turn buttons on and off. But there is another side to the social-presence phenomenon that does not engender emotional intimacy: since the digital age allows us to live an edited life, we can choose when to view and reply to messages at …

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The Overview Effect

Neptune, the furthest planet in our solar system, would be a staggering 24 kilometres away. They end up feeling hyper-vulnerable, abandoned, alone, invalidated, not protected, not taken care of, or disconnected from the parent. In that pause, you can account for your part in the issue at hand and assess …

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Always Has Been Graft And Greed

We have arrived at the most famous and noticeable areas of wellness - physical wellness! Even Bruce Arena, who's seen his share of promising prospects in his forty years of coaching at the college, pro, and national team levels, believes in Pulisic. It even worked for my sister who wanted help …

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Is It Time To See Rapture Yet?

If you seek out professional help, be sure to see someone who is comfortable with your kaleidoscope of emotions. You are working with the understanding of how the brain works to figure out how you can best push them to do what it is that you want the most. At …

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Overcoming Procrastination

Being able to identify anxious fictions is an important anxiety-management ability. Have you ever been excited about going to a church fellowship so that you can spend time with a lot of your friends, but your partner complains about having to endure another evening of shallow conversation? This pose is …

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The Lost Art Of Clarity

We are not seeing all the factors and forces that shaped that person. No matter how much his parents financially helped him, he could hardly pay his bills. Instead of being outraged or attacking back, Steve Martin's movie character C. One month later, the head coach who had hired Lou …

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Smelling The Bullshit

Do not discuss personal things with your boss or invite him into your personal life. I need to change my internal dialogue, which is what I'm saying to myself each and every day when I am out in the world. Not that the brain isn't a complex, baffling mess of …

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Decide To Forgive Today

I find myself that I will break out in tiny bumps when I'm sweating, especially if I'm using heavier products. It could be something that is in front of you, words on a article, a picture that you saw, a video that you watched, or anything else that was primarily …

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Loving Your Inner Child--Part Two

A confined weltanschauung, continued use of mind control puts you on the pedestal of importance. When you rely on your partner to provide everything you need in life, you put far too much weight on the relationship, and it inevitably suffers under strain. Triiodothyronine, or T3, is by far the …

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Developing Healthy Boundaries

The more you understand the different factors that work together to create our experience of anxiety, the more avenues you have to address and overcome it. But unlike store-bought bottled water, WaterBrick containers are more of an investment. Not seeking fulfilment they are not swayed by the desire for change …

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Cultivate Arrangement

He'd begun to carve out his niche in the adult world--a world far larger and, for all its hard edges, in some ways far more accommodating to his adolescent interests and talents than most of what existed in his large public high school. Pick up a pen and, instead of …

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