Filter Out Learning

I also suggest that some children may need more interventions than Dr H offers. Standing in a circle of 30 participants, a facilitator read from a list naming particular forms of harm. Cheating becomes much simpler when there are more steps between us and the dishonest act. I went from …

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Press Safely!

They push a person towards trying again with a belief that through effort and persistence, excellence and success can be achieved. Disarray bombards our senses with overstimulation. The experience of connection or disconnection described by attachment profoundly shapes our expectations, behaviors, and ability to communicate positively in important relationships throughout …

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Is It Time To See Rapture Yet?

If you seek out professional help, be sure to see someone who is comfortable with your kaleidoscope of emotions. You are working with the understanding of how the brain works to figure out how you can best push them to do what it is that you want the most. At …

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Success Vs. Failure

You don't have to live this way the rest of your life. If you approach a task, even something as minute as tying your shoes, with the mind-set that you are going to do it right the first time, it will keep you from spending the time redoing it. With …

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Labored Position

The success or failure of your early attachment bond creates expectations about how people will respond to you now. We blame our parents, teachers, friends, MTV, the weather, or even the star-sign forecasts! Every two weeks they switched to the next pill, so that after eight weeks everyone had tried …

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Asking For Help

The same is true for meditation--you have to develop a practice before you know what you're missing. My complaints were numerous and the wanting continued. With this approach, my first questions were, How do we ordinary folks understand novel sentences and visual scenes? But the recovering victim is not going …

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The Power Of Teamwork

You might not feel like you have had any power up to this point, but consider this. Such support can be most helpful when it comes from someone who has been there and has gone through the same experience. With their positive energy, you will appreciate the importance of living …

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Coping With Submission

She had a great job, great friends, a healthy perception of herself and lots of cool hobbies. While there is potential for difficulties between people with opposite preferences, problems can also arise when people have the same preference: two people with the initiating preference may not listen to each other …

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Is Fidelity Worth The Effort?

Children need to feel like they can fully be themselves and develop to whatever seed they were, so they can become the person that they were meant to become. When you feel ashamed of or feel the need to conceal aspects of yourself in order to survive or find belonging …

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Monitor Responses To Medication

So parents, for example, have more contact time with their kids today - but it's partial and distracted, predominantly due to the tug of technology. Adults don't continue talking even after another adult has said they don't want to talk anymore about a topic. So when a dependent goes wrong, she …

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Be Careful What You Ask For

There are physiological changes in puberty, and they seem to be particularly problematic in relation to insulin resistance for African-American youth. I've committed to live as a libertarian for a week, I explained. Then the ear left, yet the body thrived though deaf. Moreover, sitting down with the super-elite, as …

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