Smelling The Bullshit

Do not discuss personal things with your boss or invite him into your personal life. I need to change my internal dialogue, which is what I'm saying to myself each and every day when I am out in the world. Not that the brain isn't a complex, baffling mess of …

more ...

Success Vs. Failure

You don't have to live this way the rest of your life. If you approach a task, even something as minute as tying your shoes, with the mind-set that you are going to do it right the first time, it will keep you from spending the time redoing it. With …

more ...



Relax Into Wealth

But when football came to my doorstep, he said, it was my chance to make everyone proud of me. To solve this problem, you would multiply the two numbers step by step to reach the right answer. The opposites must be united within us by our own conscious efforts. All …

more ...

Turn Resistance Into A Game

We're being asked to think together in ways that are innovative and relational. We know that the mere presence of firearms can prime aggressive thoughts and that interacting with guns can boost testosterone, further fueling aggressive behavior. You're now at odds with a person who knows exactly what buttons to …

more ...



Coping With Submission

She had a great job, great friends, a healthy perception of herself and lots of cool hobbies. While there is potential for difficulties between people with opposite preferences, problems can also arise when people have the same preference: two people with the initiating preference may not listen to each other …

more ...



Not Just On Your Roof

I started by helping him find areas of attention in his body that helped him feel comfortable and grounded. By and large, then, your loved one's pain is your pain. As a mental health educator, I worked for an agency that supported me in creating and implementing a state-funded curriculum …

more ...


Pay Attention To Details

Record what time you went to bed, what time you got up in the morning, and whether you experienced sleep disruptions during the night (if so, note how many disruptions and for how long). In the last year I have gotten the same bottle for half that! I want to …

more ...

The History Of Meditation

After a few late nights on our machines, we sheepishly admitted that we had failed. All you need is a yoga mat for gentle yoga, a chair for chair yoga, comfortable clothing, and a yoga instructor. In India, where arranged marriages are the cultural norm, the divorce rate is around …

more ...


Speak For Yourself

It's clear Luther took his own advice and listened to her as if from God himself. Yet, for some reason, the shift occurred during or after seeing the person. Vitamins and minerals are essential for the body to function well and contribute to the prevention of a number of diseases …

more ...




When Things Get Hard

The risk of starting off with a broader goal is that you may lose motivation when you don't see results quickly. Being honest about our feelings, while also respecting those of another, is essential to experiencing greater intimacy and love. How often does a plan go completely right without any …

more ...


Coping With Rapport

There are so many couples who want the other person to open up and let go more, to not be afraid to ask for what they want or to ask for something new and fresh. To make ahead, double the recipe except for the eggs and cheese, reserving half of …

more ...

Obedience To Authority

This would be the right decision and would lead to a healthier, happier lifestyle and could open one's life up to numerous positive opportunities. The reservoir of goodwill needs to be replenished through loving words and actions. For example, a man who has just been relieved of his job can …

more ...



Balancing The Seesaw

Since she's probably glowing, finding something to compliment shouldn't be much of a stretch. Then she will pretend to be fake offended and have an attitude not wanting to talk to you for the rest of the day, or weekend, or even dreadfully the whole week on the couch treatment …

more ...


Communication Breakdown

Or if you tend toward being a people pleaser, you might be driven by a fear of letting others down or disappointing them. These mutations are passed down by parent bacteria to their progeny and give them the ability to defend themselves against an antibiotic attack. Find me the person …

more ...




Wiping Away The Memories Of Failure

Focus on taking deep breaths in through your nose and then out through your mouth. Cosmetic dentists report that women come armed with articles ripped from magazines, in hopes of replicating one of the most coveted smiles: Julia Roberts, Halle Berry, Gwyneth Paltrow, Heather Locklear, or, more recently, Jessica Simpson …

more ...


Act On Urges To Withdraw

Thus, if you feel an anxiety attack coming on, a round of concentrated tense and release exercises can cut it off at the source. A duration of 15 to 20 minutes of ice pack application is good enough to get the desired effect. You need to come to an understanding …

more ...

A Balm For Body And Brain

Activation of quantum communication happens when particle waves of energy receive a jolt of some sort that causes a change. It turned out that she had eaten a salad with a dressing containing cow's milk about twenty minutes beforehand. Turn on the vacation notice in your email, including a note …

more ...

Having Taken In Too Much Juice

What blocks the flow of qi within our bodies is tension--the subtle effect of mental strain on our muscles and nerves. Keep a food journal that tracks your daily intake but also records how you're feeling, your daily exercise, and your stats (eg , weight, body measurements, etc). Just before our …

more ...


A Victim Mentality

Although I don't want this to read like a gushing Oscar-winner's speech, I do have to thank my agent, Julian Alexander, and the team at the Soho Agency, namely Ben Clarke and Isabelle Wilson. Though each move is very mechanical, the ice skater herself elevates these coordinated movements into something …

more ...

Repair Your Impartiality

If you are creating this force as a reaction to the outside world, or in relation to a decision you are making, you will want to ask their thoughts about this subject. An example of this is sensitivity to MSG (monosodium glutamate) that leads to a physical reaction such as …

more ...